Block, Delete, Move On: It's not you, it's them : The instant Sunday Times bestseller

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A no-bulls*it approach to dating and adulthood as a woman - which I’m sure everyone needs sometimes. Lalalaletmeexplain commented: “I am honoured and excited to have been given this opportunity by Transworld and Penguin Random House. The sad truth is that when it comes to modern dating, there are a whole host of challenges and hurdles to overcome. We were delighted to create a La La La inspired mini kit to give out to press to promote her new book at her launch; featuring our MAMMOTH® Yarn in red. I think if you’re wondering why you keep dating people who mess you about that this could be a good read, and if you’ve got a friend who keeps getting her heart broken then this is a funny tongue-in-cheek present that you can send her way this Valentines.

She opens up the book saying it’s for those who can relate to those ‘raise your hand if you have been personally victimised by your own taste in men’ memes and honestly… Who hasn’t? Block, Delete, Move On is billed as a “provocative book that empowers women to overcome the pitfalls of modern dating and help them to successfully navigate unsatisfactory relationships with a men”.

The synopsis explains: “Lala tackles serious themes in a lively, engaging way, coaxing her followers to confront any questionable behaviour by men in their lives or the ‘fuckboys’ they encounter while dating. Lalalaletmeexplain is the anonymous relationships expert who delves into the highs and lows of modern day dating to give raw and honest advice on topics that people are often too embarrassed or afraid to talk about. However, as her blog explains, these negative patterns of behaviour are extremely tough to break out of and she admits that she has found it difficult to take her own advice. For 15 years she had a career as an extreme-trauma social worker, and she is a qualified sex and relationships educator who was employed by the NHS to give training in this field.

Her readers have found truly relatable content, inspiring them to build confidence through this supportive community and know that they deserve much much more from their relationships.

A thirty-something mother of one with an absolutely no way, no how, no nonsense approach to dating and relationships.

BLOG: La,la,la, let me explain Bad Dates, Good Stories, Naked Truths (names have been changed to protect the guilty) (lalalaletmeexplain.And honestly, for at least the first half of this book, I don’t think you’ll feel anymore optimistic. Her no nonsense look at dating in the modern world is thought provoking, funny but most of all real. There really aren’t many nice things said about men, and although there are a great number of guys out there that definitely aren’t matches for us, there are some ‘decent men’ out there. And it will definitely help you spot red and pink flags, and maybe even feel a little bit victimised by your own past dating choices. Both on Instagram and on her fortnightly podcast, Lalalaletmeexplain delves into the highs and lows of modern-day dating to give raw and honest advice on topics that people are often too embarrassed or afraid to talk about, says the publisher.

From ghosting and negging to gaslighting and abuse, this book teaches you what to look out for, to make sure that you're not accidentally dating men with toxic traits who secretly hate women, or who just want to have sex and run. Her mix of professional knowledge coupled with her openness about her own experiences has already gained her an army of loyal followers and I know this book will be an invaluable guide for so many. Most importantly, this book will give you the power to BLOCK, DELETE and MOVE ON with living your best life. I’m married now but it took me 36 lonnngggg years of all of these fuck boys in different skins, my life was at risk several times (seriously) and a whole lot of reflection and self awareness to get to a point where I can have a SAFE healthy relationship with a slightly annoying but lovable man. It’s a decent read even if I would recommend not taking everything in it to heart - it’s definitely quite a cynical outlook on dating, but there’s some good advice in there.LalalaLetMeExplain is the anonymous relationships expert who delves into the highs and lows of modern day dating to give raw and honest advice on topics that people are often too embarrassed or afraid to talk about.