About this deal
So whenever I need to be punished, I take down my trousers and underpants, or my pyjamas, and bend over obediently for her. This might range, Little Miss Naughty Lady, from just being extremely sassy to being haughty and/arrogant, to lying to me.
She could feel him behind her – she opened her eyes, and saw him lift the stick – no run-up this time.In what possible world could this behavior toward a child, toward any loved one, be anything other than grievous mistreatment?
Every time I feel silenced or shut down, the trapped panic sets in — the panic of a girl whose feelings were never allowed a fair hearing. People may use it for relaxation or the release of power, responsibility, negative emotions, or trauma.
Crying is very natural before, during and after the spanking, and the child should never be punished for that. When my ex-spouse and I were dating, we had the the usual getting-to-know-each-other talks — with a deeper dimension, since we had known each other as kids and had reconnected as adults.