Shots Spreader Bar with Cuffs

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Come on, it’s 2023. We should all know by now that your spreader bar doesn’t discriminate based on gender, and neither should you! Therefore, once the play ends, either by choice or by someone using a safe word, it’s critical that you take time to rest, relax and decompress. That is where after care come into play. I submit to you the 19 best spreader bar positions to spice up your sex life and add an erotic punch to BDSM play. Most spreader bars require prior conversations. As your partner might be scared off if you pull out a scary-looking bar out from the blue.

Learning those few important things will save you some valuable time and money: Is It fixed size or expandable? If you and your partner have already experimented with toys in the bedroom, whether that be a vibrator, blindfolds, or any other kind of restraints, then bringing a spreader bar to play should be pretty straightforward.

What Are Some General Safety Rules to Follow?

In addition, having the arms attached to a spreader bar, makes the bound person unable to put their hands forward to break a fall. As long as you’re in an environment that welcomes it, like a sex party or kink club, there’s no reason you can’t use a spreader bar in public. Thus, you need to be there to unhook, unbind or untie your partner immediately. Fortunately, most all of the best spreader bar sets have large O rings to which the cuffs are clipped, making it take only seconds to release someone. An article in Smithsonian Magazine cited numbers that 36 percent of American adults engage in bondage or kinky activities. That's 16 percent higher than the global average of 20 percent. America coming out on top. Are Leg Spreader Bars Only for Women?

Additionally, some people may use spreader bars as a means of adding excitement to their sex life, even though they aren’t necessarily into the BDSM scene at all. Looking to find the best spreader bar? Take a look at this Round-Up review of the Best Spreader Bars we’ve tested at Bedbible. Best Spreader Bar Positions in a Nutshell It’s covered in sleek faux leather, offset by bronze-colored rings and clips. Of all the spreader bars I’ve reviewed, I’d say this one pays the most attention to aesthetic detail.Bed restraints, on the other hand, consist of straps that wrap around the top and bottom of your mattress. They feature attachment points (usually D-rings or O-rings) and/or cuffs so you can open your partner’s legs by pulling them apart. Generally the restrained person will be spread out in a starfish position, either face up or face down Both are designed to keep your partner’s legs apart, making it impossible to close them. This offers you access to their most sensitive areas, which can be an incredibly intense and vulnerable experience for the receiving partner. Generally speaking, they are made of a solid rod that is usually carbon fiber, metal, or wood and are covered with a softer material such as PU leather, nylon or leather if the rod is abrasive to the skin. Metal spreader bars are the most popular due to their durability. Some of them are a fixed length while others are adjustable and can range in length between 12 inches to 36 inches. On each end are ankle cuffs so that you can attach them to your submissive's ankles and keep their legs from closing during intense orgasms. The cuffs are sometimes built into the bar. When they're not, you can customize and use your own. Most cuffs are made of Velcro, PU leather, or leather. You can also use the bar on the wrists. But honestly, the main effect comes from leg opening. Plus her not being able to close them especially when close to climax. Ask for permission: First, ask your partner if it's okay to try something new; don't pressure them or coerce them.